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I’ve met people who are incredibly occupied by problems. I call them problem lovers! They talk about their problems over and over. And more often than not they’re the same this year as they were last year – in fact, as they have been for many years. Mothers and grandmothers often have the same problems. It’s just how things have turned out in their family – it’s almost a tradition. It can be like that in some companies too…

The great thing about problems is they can be solved. When I became a young mom at 15 – uneducated and facing lots of personal challenges – I had to solve the problems to survive. So I turned every single problem into something funny. I stopped being annoyed by them and instead I began to like them whenever they emerged. Which they did. In droves. There were often what seemed like huge clumps of challenges that seemed unsolvable…

The way I dealt with the problems was to split them up – I worked through them problem by problem. That normally undid the knot. And I got a kick out of solving them.

Problems are no obstacle. I think they’re a gift. Because when problems are solved, there has also been a development – progress. You are suddenly in a new arena, with new perspectives that can open up all sorts of new opportunities!

That’s why we should both receive and welcome gifts like this. Instead of using our time to talk about them, we should instead focus on the solution. Did you know that we spend 80 % of our time talking about problems and just 20 % solving them? It should be the other way round – then the world would be a different place…

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JOB INTERVIEW QUESTION: DO YOU HAVE A DOG?

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I really want a Catahouls Lepard dog

It sounds completely crazy to ask a question like that in a job interview. But every now and then I do just that.

It is said that:

“When children learn more about dogs and get to spend time with them, they develop empathy and respect for animals, nature and other people increases.”

Working in an industry with many people means we have to wear our hearts on our sleeves. And we need to have empathy, and the ability to visualize the situations of others. Whether they are customers or employees.

If I’m unsure about a candidate during a job interview, I sometimes decide to ask: Do you have a dog?

There’s naturally nothing wrong about having a cat or a rabbit.

But talking a little about why you do or don’t have pets can be a useful way of getting to know people. I grew up on a farm with goats, cows, horses, rabbits, a cat and a dog – and I’ve always had dogs. Big and small.

Right now, I don’t have a dog for practical reasons and because I travel a lot. And I miss it every day. When I get home and open the front door, and there is no dog to meet me, my heart sinks.

That’s why I’m getting a dog this Christmas. It’s at the top of my Christmas list – just like it did when I was 9 years old and got my first dog, a poodle called Winnie…

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Me and my Grand Danois dogs; THE Dog og MIMI

Why

Bobo, a small dog that is very convenient to travel with.

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Call from Signe Tynning on TV2

My phone rang: “Hello, this is Signe Tynning from TV2. I’d like to write a biography about you and your story.” My goodness, was my first thought. It was a pleasure, a surprise, and a little frightening.

Of course, I’ve seen Signe on God Morgen Norge many times, but I’ve never met her in person. We agreed to meet for coffee, and I liked her straight away! There is something genuine, fresh and delightful about Signe. At the same time, she has an appraising and analytical mindset. At least she did when we met. She analyzed me.

I don’t know how you write a biography, but I think she will probably do a lot of research and talk to a lot of people.

I said yes! I felt really honored and at the same time I began to feel a little apprehensive and excited, all at once!

I don’t know who she has spoken to. Or what they have said.

But I’m incredibly excited about what the book contains!

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Signe Tynning is famous presenter who has been at TV2 for more than 20 years. Most recently, she has been the presenter of God Morgen Norge on TV2.

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Generous with Praise

Bente’s story

Bente worked a job where it wasn’t common to praise people. It was quite simply not the done thing.
But eventually she changed jobs and after a month with her new employer she and all her new colleagues were gathered in the canteen.

Bente’s manager, Arne, got up and requested the floor. He looked at Bente and said: “I would like to honor and praise Bente for stepping in and taking the initiative in our last project. She contributed new ideas and found solutions. If it hadn’t been for her, we would never have made it. Many, many thanks Bente!”
Everyone clapped – there was wild applause and whistling!

Bente, who was unaccustomed to praise, blushed. She leaned over to her colleague and whispered: “If I was going to die, I could die now!”

I think this is a powerful story. It shows how important praise and recognition are. Mankind’s need to be seen.

Be generous with praise!
It’s free.

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